Essay 4.6 | Bright Shiny Objects


Take an ordinary object: a plastic banana, a chipped horseshoe, a small trinket you might pass at a thrift store without a second glance. On its own, it is almost worthless. Add a story, and something changes. The object has a past. It has a human connection. It becomes a little vessel of meaning. That…
I once watched someone enter a steering committee with a beautiful, fully baked presentation and the wrong understanding of what the room was for. He thought he had come to present. What the room needed was for him to think with us. That difference matters. A steering committee is not merely a checkpoint, a ceremonial…
One of the most memorable, meaningful, magical events of my early life should have been my college graduation.
I did not go.
Every event has a cast, whether or not anyone calls it that. A board meeting has a cast. A fundraiser has a cast. A worship service has a cast. A customer conference has a cast. Someone is hosting. Someone is guiding. Someone is explaining. Someone is carrying the emotional weight. Someone is trusted. Someone is…
A senior leader once put the problem in beautifully human terms. If a sales kickoff lands on your daughter’s birthday or near Mother’s Day, he said, it “better be freaking good.” That line stayed with me because it cuts through the romance of gathering. Yes, events matter. Yes, shared time can do things email, dashboards,…
Bill Gates was on stage demonstrating Windows 98 when the machine crashed into the now-legendary Blue Screen of Death. You can feel the room in the video. The moment lands, the audience reacts, and everyone knows something has gone wrong in public. Then Gates smiles and says, “We’ll fix that bug before we ship.” The…