Essay 4.6 | Bright Shiny Objects


One post-COVID virtual event reached more people at far less cost than its in-person predecessor. On paper, that looked efficient. More reach, lower spend, easier access. The spreadsheet seemed happy. Then the people it was built for said it “sucked, sucked!” That phrase matters because it cuts through the temptation to measure only what is…
Every event has a cast, whether or not anyone calls it that. A board meeting has a cast. A fundraiser has a cast. A worship service has a cast. A customer conference has a cast. Someone is hosting. Someone is guiding. Someone is explaining. Someone is carrying the emotional weight. Someone is trusted. Someone is…
A former CMO once told me he had a quiet way of judging meetings. He listened for how much of the conversation was about the past and how much was about the future. The present, he said, was implicit: the decision in front of us, the issue on the table, the work to be done…
One of the most memorable, meaningful, magical events of my early life should have been my college graduation.
I did not go.
We have all been in the meeting that ends in applause and changes nothing. We have all seen the conference that dazzles for a day and disappears by Monday. The lights were right. The room was full. The slides were polished. And still, somehow, nothing moved. That is because real change does not happen through…
At a major event in New Orleans, I once asked taxi drivers to walk into the venue and tell me where they thought they were. Every one of them could identify the convention center. Not one of them could really tell me whose event it was or why it mattered. That bothered me because place…