Essay 3.1 | Broaden Your Perspective


There is never enough money, space, or time. There is, however, a nearly unlimited supply of ideas and demands. Everyone has something they want added: another session, another reception, another sponsor benefit, another feature, another city, another speaker, another dinner, another moment that feels indispensable to them.That is why scarcity is one of the central…
At Dell World, Brocade became known for throwing the party everyone really wanted to attend. Eventually, the party became so popular that it had to become a “whisper party,” because the official host understandably did not love watching people slip away from the sanctioned program to go somewhere more exciting. That is a barnacle event….
My mother belonged to a small circle of culturally curious friends who called themselves the “Gypsies.” Once a month they would go somewhere new together: a museum, a gallery, a theater, an artist’s studio, a special restaurant. On paper, it was simple. Pick a place, pick a date, and show up. But that is not…
A badge in a drawer. A wristband kept for years. A program someone cannot quite throw away. A smell, a phrase, a song—and suddenly the whole gathering comes back. Every event ends. The lights come up. People drift toward rideshares, airports, hotel elevators, inboxes, school pickups, and the ordinary gravity of life. The venue resets….
Take an ordinary object: a plastic banana, a chipped horseshoe, a small trinket you might pass at a thrift store without a second glance. On its own, it is almost worthless. Add a story, and something changes. The object has a past. It has a human connection. It becomes a little vessel of meaning. That…
At a major event in New Orleans, I once asked taxi drivers to walk into the venue and tell me where they thought they were. Every one of them could identify the convention center. Not one of them could really tell me whose event it was or why it mattered. That bothered me because place…